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Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Acknowledge and Appreciate Yourself TODAY by Jack Canfield
Acknowledge and Appreciate Yourself TODAY
by Jack Canfield
With the year coming to a close, it's time to acknowledge and
appreciate yourself for everything you've accomplished today,
throughout the year, and in life. How many times have you
succeeded in the past month? Are you able to recall your successes
as well as your failures and missteps?
Many people under-appreciate the little things they accomplish
every day. And yet they can recall in detail all the times they
have failed or made mistakes. That's because the brain remembers
events more easily when they're accompanied by strong emotions.
You might recall graduation, losing 10 pounds, winning an award, or
landing a highly sought after position.
But do you include in your successes how you had a really great
talk with your spouse, how you spent quality time with your teen,
how you got all your list of things done for the day, how you
learned to change your own oil, or got your fussy child to take a
nap?
If you don't acknowledge your successes the same way you
acknowledge your mistakes, you're sure to have a memory full of
blunders.
Toot your own horn and don't wait for anyone else to praise you!
If you only remember the mistakes and failures, you won't be as
ready to take risks that will lead to your successes. Build your
self-esteem by recalling ALL the ways you have succeeded and your
brain will be filled with images of you making your achievements
happen again and again.
The more you acknowledge your past successes, the more confident
you become in taking on and successfully accomplishing new ones.
Take time to write your achievements down.
To really convince yourself that you're a successful person who can
continue to achieve great things, I'd like to challenge you to list
100 or more of your life successes.
Start when you were very young and think of all your achievements
since then. Don't just pick the big things, write down all the
things you take for granted. Thinks like, learning to ride a bike,
singing solo at church, getting your first job, or leading a
fund-raising campaign.
You should also begin to create a Victory Log of your daily
successes and review it anytime you are faced with a new challenge.
By writing it down everyday, you're securing it in your long-term
memory, which enhances your self-esteem and builds your confidence.
Surround yourself with reminders of your success.
We know from research that what you see in your environment has a
psychological impact on your moods, your attitudes, and your
behavior. Your environment has a great deal of influence over you.
And here's an even more important fact: You have almost total
control over your immediate environment.
Put up pictures, articles, trophies, awards and other symbols of
your past achievements that remind you about your past successes.
Make a special place - a special shelf, wall or section of your
home or office that you pass by every day and fill it with your
success symbols.
This will have a powerful effect on your subconscious mind and will
subtly remind you that you are someone who has consistent success
in life!
This is also a great thing to do for your children. Proudly display
their success symbols as well.
People like to be around those who have a healthy self-esteem and
who are achieving their goals. Commit to acknowledging your
achievements and your brain will begin to tell you the truth...
that you can do ANYTHING!
Taking just 30 minutes to complete this activity will become your
positive springboard into 2010 for even more successes.
© 2009 Jack Canfield
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