The Magic Of Creating Your Own Reality

The Magic Of Creating Your Own Reality
By Kate Corbin

"We want you to show yourself your power. We want you to remember who you are. We want you to remember that you are the creator of your own experience." -- Abraham-Hicks

How do you feel when someone says to you, "You know, you create your own reality." If you're looking at a reality you like, you probably smile and say, "Yeah, I did that!" If you're looking at a reality you don't like, you may get upset and insist, "I did NOT create THAT! I would NEVER have created THAT!"

Well, according to the Law of Attraction, you ARE creating your own reality. In fact, you're creating your reality all day every day with your thoughts and feelings. The all-important question then becomes: Are you creating consciously or are you creating by default?

The reality you perceive is a mirror reflecting back to you a picture of what you're thinking and feeling. The good news is that, even if you don't particularly like the picture you've created so far, you can begin immediately to improve it. As you learn how to consciously create your own reality, it is no longer necessary to accept unpleasant circumstances or settle for less than the life you truly desire.

Because nothing is fixed and everything changes all the time, you can start right now creating the reality you truly desire, building your life thought by thought, as surely as a mason builds a house brick by brick. When you choose thoughts that feel good, you manifest circumstances that feel good. Therefore, consciously creating your own reality starts with directing your thoughts toward what feels good.

As you make the connection between what you're thinking and feeling and what's manifesting in your experience, you create from a place of confidence and empowerment rather than from a place of doubt and fear.

"The best way to predict the future is to create it." - Abraham Lincoln

Consciously creating your own reality is really just a matter of applying the LOA principles you already know - perhaps with a new understanding - maybe in a more purposeful way.

Here are some tips to help you design and create your life in accordance with your own desires, to help you manifest more of what you want and less of what you don't want:

* Make feeling good the most important thing.
* Notice how you feel and choose thoughts that feel better.
* Find things to appreciate.
* Be as present as possible.
* Be as happy as possible.
* Accept your inherent worthiness.
* Maintain positive expectation.
* Listen for and take inspired action toward your desire.
* Focus on what you want and why you want it, letting go of how, where, when, and who.
* Hold fast to your dream even when there's no physical evidence that it's happening.
* Change your vibration rather than trying to change your circumstances.
* Have fun and follow your bliss.
* Relax and trust that all is well and that everything is unfolding perfectly.


"We magnetize into our lives whatever we hold in our thought." - Richard Bach

As you accept that you create your world with your thoughts and feelings - and that YOU are in charge of those thoughts and feelings - you become the Master Creator of your own precious life. As you consciously apply the Magic of Creating Your Own Reality, you will soon find yourself living in a magical Universe where dreams really do come true!

Kate Corbin is a Law of Attraction Life Coach and the creator of Gold Star Coaching. Both her coaching practice and her books - Dining at the Cosmic Café: How to Be and Do and Have Whatever You Desire as well as Think and Grow Thin with the Law of Attraction - http://www.goldstarcoaching.com/ebook.html are designed to empower you to truly live the life of your dreams. To contact Coach Kate, check out her books, and subscribe to her free ezine, Magical Musings, visit http://www.goldstarcoaching.com/

Trust That All is Well By Kate Corbin Platinum Quality Author

Trust That All is Well
By Kate Corbin Platinum Quality Author

"When you trust, the current will carry you to all of the circumstances and events and experiences that you've been asking for." - Abraham-Hicks

Many years ago, my best friend pointed out to me that I didn't really trust anyone or anything. Although somewhat of an exaggeration, the truth of what she said resonated deeply within me and I made a note to self: "Someday you might want to look into this trust thing."

Over the years, as I began to peek inside that box labeled TRUST, I was astonished to find that it contains nothing less than the secrets to living a magical life, the veritable keys to the kingdom. It turns out that trust is absolutely essential to living a happy, healthy life. In Law of Attraction terms, trust is another word for allowing. When we trust, we allow our natural state of Well-Being to flow into our lives. When we don't trust, we resist the Well-Being that would otherwise be ours. Good to know, huh?

In my more skeptical, pre-trust days, I believed I had to do everything on my own, often feeling separate and alone. Back then, I believed I had to "make" things happen with physical action and I exhausted myself trying to force square pegs into round holes. What a joy to learn that, when I trust, the current will carry me to all the circumstances, events and experiences I've been asking for. Learning to trust is magical.

So what are we talking about here? Trust what? Trust Source? Trust the Stream? Trust the Universal Manager? Trust your Inner Being, your gut, your emotional guidance system? Yes, it's all of this and more. For me, the best way to express it is: Trust that All is Well - even when it may not appear that way.

When I trust that all is well, I feel good, which is another way of saying I'm connected with Source, which is another way of saying I have access to my vibrational escrow. When I trust that all is well, I know that if I don't manifest the exact thing I desire at the exact moment I desire it, it's because something even better is on its way to me. When I trust that all is well, I free myself from judging everyone and everything as good or bad. When I trust that all is well, I get the Law of Attraction working FOR me rather than AGAINST me. When I trust that all is well, I stop "messing with the cursed how's" (Mike Dooley) and focus on my job - which is to enjoy my ride on the river.

How would your life be different if you lived from a place of trust, serenely going with the flow? Here's a preview. Take a moment and enjoy the ride:

Imagine yourself floating blissfully down the stream, relaxed and at ease. Trusting the perfect timing of the Universe, you let go of "when." Trusting the perfect choreography of the Universe, you let go of "how." As you relax and flow naturally with the current, you're plugged into the power supply of Source, infused with Life Force Energy for the journey. As you trust the stream to take you where you want to go, you experience the magical relief of dropping the oars and being carried gently along. Tuned in to guidance, intuition and inspiration, you take inspired action, confident that good things are continually manifesting for you. Feeling safe, supported, and peaceful, you release resistance and see your life as a grand adventure. Trusting the natural order of things, you let go of effort, hard work and struggle; and float merrily, merrily, merrily, merrily, gently down the stream. Aaahh!

Sounds wonderful, doesn't it? As you train yourself to trust that all is well by making a decision to do so, your vibration shifts, and the evidence shows up. With trust comes belief and expectation, as well as the certainty that everything is happening for your highest good. When you trust that all is well, you allow your life to unfold with ease and grace. When you hold the vision and allow the stream to carry you to everything you desire, you align with the Magic of Trust and life becomes yummy and delicious!

Kate Corbin is a Law of Attraction Life Coach and the creator of Gold Star Coaching. Both her coaching practice and her books - Dining at the Cosmic Café: How to Be and Do and Have Whatever You Desire as well as Think and Grow Thin with the Law of Attraction - http://www.goldstarcoaching.com/ebook.html are designed to empower you to truly live the life of your dreams. To contact Coach Kate, check out her books, and subscribe to her free ezine, Magical Musings, visit http://www.goldstarcoaching.com/

The Magic of Telling a New Story By Kate Corbin Platinum Quality Author

The Magic of Telling a New Story
By Kate Corbin Platinum Quality Author

"As you tell the story the way you want it to be, the Universe has to comply. It has to." - Abraham-Hicks

While listening to the Abraham-Hicks 2008 Mexican Cruise, I noticed a powerful theme running through the entire ten CD set - the concept of telling a new story for your life. Here's the message: Whatever you're experiencing in your life is a direct reflection of the story you've been telling. Therefore, if you'd like to experience different circumstances in your life, tell a different story. Simply start telling the story of your life the way you want it to be rather than the way it is or the way it was or the way you're afraid it might be. Take back your power to create your life exactly the way you want it to be with the Magic of Telling a New Story.

To begin, step back and take a good long look at your life. Are your relationships fulfilling? How's that bank account looking? Do you love your work and feel good about your level of success? What about your health and fitness? Are there areas of your life that could use some tweaking? Great, tell a new story. Start today and tell the story of your life the way you want it to be. Tell an empowering new story that works FOR you rather than AGAINST you.

Here's the bottom line: Everything you're living is in response to the story you're telling. Everything! As you think the thoughts and feel the feelings of living out your new empowering story, circumstances and events will morph to reflect your new, empowering story. As you tell a new story, you summon new experiences. Tell your story the way you want it to be. You're the star, the central character, the lead in a production called Your Life. Here's an example:

"All is well in my world. I love my life and see it getting better every day. I experience joyous relationships with the wonderful, amazing, uplifting people in my life. I feel good and look good. I love and appreciate my body and enjoy vibrant good health. I'm exhilarated and excited as I begin each new day. I have an occupation that thrills me. I experience ever-flowing prosperity and abundance. I expect and believe that something wonderful is just about to happen. I stay connected with Source, happily creating my ideal life."

As you practice the story that resonates with your dreams rather than your nightmares, you become a vibrational match to a grand and glorious adventure. Then everything that matches your new story will actualize around you and everything that matches your old story will disappear from your life. Here's more:

"Everything I desire flows to me easily and joyfully. I make feeling good the most important thing and I'm getting really good at keeping my vibration high by choosing thoughts that feel good. I'm filled with appreciation, always looking for more to appreciate and enjoy. I love my life. I love myself. I love my family and friends. I'm a magnet for amazing prosperity, vibrant good health and loving relationships. I'm a successful, confident, prosperous, loving, generous, happy person."

That's the kind of story you want to tell. You know by looking at your life what kind of story you're telling. If your life does not look and feel the way you want it to, you're telling a story about what you DON'T want. As you consistently tell the story of what you DO want, you train your life into alignment with what you DO want.

As you tell a new story and practice that new vibration, the Universe will show you evidence of that new story. It's your story, your choice, your life. As you tell the story of your life the way you want it to be and FEEL it the way you want it to be, you broadcast that high vibration out to the Universe and the Universe will, indeed MUST, deliver to you the circumstances and events that conform to your new, improved story.

As you replace your old habit of talking about your life as it is and instead consciously choose to talk about your life as you want it to be, you become the conscious creator of your own reality. As you engage the Magic of Telling a New Story, you take creative control of your own precious life!

Kate Corbin

THE MAGIC OF JOYFUL RELATIONSHIPS by Kate Corbin

THE MAGIC OF JOYFUL RELATIONSHIPS

"Shower the people you love with love."
- James Taylor

As most of us have experienced, relationships can bring us our greatest joys as well as our deepest sorrows. Relationships are such an integral part of our lives that the quality of our relationships often determines the overall quality of our lives.

How, then, can we experience relationships that lift us up rather than drag us down? By exposing limiting beliefs and replacing them with empowering beliefs, we can all experience the Magic of Joyful Relationships. To consciously create the happy, healthy relationships we desire, let's start by taking a look at:

WHAT DOES NOT CREATE JOYFUL RELATIONSHIPS:

- Blaming and Complaining. The more we focus on the unwanted aspects of others, the more unwanted aspects we elicit from them.Ouch!

- Expecting Others to Make Us Happy. When our happiness or unhappiness is dependent on the behavior of others, we give away both our power and our freedom. :-(

- Trying to Change / Fix / Control Others. If we need others to change so that we can feel good, we are definitely looking for happiness in all the wrong places.

There's got to be a better way.


WHAT DOES CREATE JOYFUL RELATIONSHIPS:

- Feel Good First. Being independently happy and determined to keep our own vibration high is the perfect platform for creating great relationships. As we know from Law of Attraction, feeling good IS the most important thing.

- Self-Love First. If we want others to love, value, and appreciate us, we must love, value, and appreciate ourselves first. Period.

- Source First. When we tend to our primary relationship with our Inner Being / Source / God, then all our other relationships will be harmonious.

- Think and Thank. As we think of things we appreciate about others and express that appreciation often, we deepen and sweeten our connection with them.

- Look for Positive Aspects. When we focus on the positive qualities of others, they will display more of their positive qualities, at least with us! :-) It helps to remember this: At their core, EVERYONE is Pure, Positive Energy.

- Tell a New Story. We can free ourselves from past hurts and painful memories by talking about relationships the way we want them to be. We can get unstuck by telling a new, improved story, such as: All my relationships are joyful!

Now that we've shined a light on the major factors behind relationship woes and relationship bliss, let's turn our attention to what Law of Attraction considers the key to manifesting wonderfully harmonious relationships:

DIRECTING OUR THOUGHTS

Although we have no real control over what others are doing, we have complete control over our own thoughts and, happily, that is all we need. Our thoughts determine who we attract into our lives and our thoughts determine how these people behave once they get there.

Good relationships are creations. As we direct our thoughts exclusively and consistently toward what we DO WANT in relationships, we begin consciously and deliberately creating the relationships of our dreams.

As we maintain a strong connection with Source, love ourselves and others, appreciate rather than judge, live our lives as we see fit and let others do the same, accept full responsibility for our own happiness, feel as good as we can in every moment, and direct the power of our thoughts toward the positive aspects of others, we are applying the Law of Attraction to create delightful, delicious relationships. When we do these things, we are sure to experience the Magic of Joyful Relationships.


Kate Corbin